Recognizing Overfeeding vs. Underfeeding

Understanding Newborn Hunger Balance

Newborns eat frequently, and it's normal for Noah to want different amounts at different times. Most babies take exactly what they need—but sometimes their little bodies show signs that they are getting too much or too little.

This isn't about doing something wrong.

It's about understanding Noah's natural signals.

 

Signs Noah May Be Underfeeding

If Noah seems underfed, Abby may notice:

• Few wet diapers (fewer than 5-6 per day after the first week)
• Persistent fussiness after a full feeding
• Falling asleep quickly during feeds and staying sleepy
• Dry lips or dark yellow urine
• Long stretches between feeds without cues
• Noticing he seems content early but becomes fussy soon after

Most of the time, this is easily corrected by offering more frequent feeds or responding to earlier hunger cues.

 

Signs Noah May Be Overfeeding

Overfeeding is more common with bottles because milk flows faster. Signs include:

• Increased spit-up after finishing
• Gassiness or tummy discomfort
• Pulling away from the bottle but fussing from fullness
• Hiccups right after feeding
• Crying with a tight tummy and small burps

If Noah turns his head away or pushes the nipple out, he's likely full.

 

How Abby Can Support a Comfortable Balance

• Feed based on Noah's cues, not strict schedules
• Pause for burping halfway through a feed
• Use paced bottle-feeding if using formula or bottles
• Keep Noah upright briefly after meals
• Offer comfort (holding, rocking) that doesn't always rely on feeding

Over time, Abby will recognize Noah's unique fullness and hunger rhythms.

 

Encouragement for Abby

Abby is learning Noah's feeding patterns exactly as a loving mom should—by watching him, responding gently, and trusting her instincts. Noah's cues will become clearer each day, and Abby is already doing an incredible job following his lead.