Newborn Basics

Understanding the Startle (Moro) Reflex

What is the Moro Reflex?

The startle reflex is a normal, involuntary reaction newborns have when they feel a sudden movement or sound—or even when they feel like they're "falling" for a moment.

Noah may:

  • Throw his arms outward
  • Spread his fingers
  • Pull his arms back toward his chest
  • Let out a brief cry
  • Settle quickly afterword

This is a sin of a healthy nervous system.

 

Why It Happens

Noah's brain and body are still connecting. His reflexes are automatic responses that protect him and prepare him for future motor skills.

Even gentle movements—laying him down or shifting positions—can trigger it.

 

How Long It Lasts

The startle reflex usually fades by the time babies are 3-4 months old as their muscles and nervous system mature.

Until then, it's completely normal.

 

How Abby Can Help Calm Noah

1. Swaddling

A proper swaddle can limit sudden arm movements that wake him up.

2. Slow Transitions

Move Noah gradually when laying him down or picking him up.

3. Reassurance Touch

A gentle hand on his chest helps him settle quickly.

4. Comforting Voice

Soft humming or whispering helps Noah relax back into sleep.

 

Encouragement for Abby

The startle reflex doesn't mean Noah is frightened—it means he's developing exactly as expected. Abby's presence, touch, and voice help him calm down faster than anything else.

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